This photo is a portrait of us in the early days following the arrival of our son. It represents the time in which each of us was searching and reviewing our place in this new organism called family. This picture is about being a mother of two and becoming an octopus in order to meet the physical and psychological needs of your offspring. It is also about being a father of two and feeling inadequate and distant. Finally, it is about being the older child and losing the lap as well as pleading for attention.